| A family is for sure the most important,
basic element of the society, a foundation of a sound, happy, prosperous
country. It seems such a truism - everybody knows it, many repeat it aloud
- in mass media, or privately, most of us deeply believe it - yet not everybody
remembers about that in their own life. |
| That's good that a government emphasizes
it - there are certain privileges for the families, especially those with
kids, compare to the singles. But the situation is far from being satisfactory,
and the government alone cannot help it.. |
| In our parents' generation, when we were
kids, nobody was telling that much about importance of a family - it was
obvious, so it did not require any discussion. Family was a sacrum, and
nobody wouldn't even think to doubt it. A government did not maybe have
so many programs favoring the family - it was coming rather from the bottom
of the society - from the family itself. It was maybe not a very attractive
stereotype - a responsible, hard working man -husband trying his best in
order to support his family, and a woman - a housewife, taking care about
"a family …..". She was trying to make a home "a sweet home". To make it
a place where kids would feel safe, loved and happy. A place where husband
would be rushing after his job, to find a sweet asylum to relax. And -
first of all - kids always had this awareness that there is somebody they
can always count on, they can rely on, a role model - a mother showing
them how to love, how to care, how to be compassionate, and father - a
great teacher of responsibility, of respect, of discipline, of honor. |
| Why was it possible? Of course, we can
say there was a different economical situation - a husband could afford
to provide a sufficient financial support for his family, so his wife didn't
have to go to work. It cannot be an excuse. My both parents were working,
working extremely hard, with almost no spare time. Witold's parents were
both working as well - many times he could see his father on Sunday only,
and for two years he didn't see him at all, because his Dad was on a job
contract in Syria. Yet few rare moments with his Dad, short, lapidary remarks
he heard from him, had a great impact on his behavior, on his believes,
on his entire life. He will always remember and appreciate them, only because
they came from the most respected person in his life - his father. |
| We do coaching for almost ten years for
people - many times before they even started the family, so they can prevent
some mistakes, although a right time to take care of it is when they were
children themselves - within their own family. But - never is too late,
and we can do a lot by making people aware of the true family values -
no matter if they are still kids, or they are parents. |
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